Salam Jumaat

Assalamualaikum.

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When we call out to Allah swt, it's important to know that you have the role to play as well. What do you want? You want to get married. So you make the dua "Oh Allah, grant me a good spouse." 

But you have not bothered to look for anyone, you have not spoken to anyone, you have for example some of the sisters and some of their families believe, that a female needs to just sit back and wait for a proposal to come to her direction when no one knows you exist. 

So for us to just sit back and say, "You know what? Your prince is already predestined, he will look for you and come to you  by the will of Allah swt." 

You know what? it might have  been predestined that your prince will probably maybe only be in the akhirat. May Allah grant us the goodness in this dunya as well as in the akhirat. 

But if we are sitting here and we like a spouse here, do something about it. Say the name of Allah, seek the help of Allah, but actively search for a spouse for those under your guardianship. 

How can you continue to say make dua, and continue supplicating to Allah when the capacity has already been given to you by Allah. Allah has given you the capacity and you don't want to use it to try and achieve.

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